|"I know there are cookies in there"|
Through habit and the rhythm of routine and consistency, I have forgotten the team aspect of riding and that he’s half of the pair necessary for success, however we define it. Getting angry and frustrated with him is not and has not been the solution to our problem. This fall, I’m refocusing on our relationship and working on our partnership from a few different angles, the first of which is groundwork. Ryon is eager to please, when it strikes his fancy. He’s smart enough to know what to do and smart enough not to do it when he doesn’t want to. Instead of challenging him only in the saddle, I’m going to try giving him some puzzles to work through on the ground. Learning to “sit” and “lay down” may be a stretch but “giving kisses” and “smiling on cue” are surely within his grasp.
It sounds silly but I’m also going to spend more time doting on him on the ground as well. Typically I’ll do a quick groom, tack up, and hop on. We do plenty of warm up in the arena but not in the barn on the ground. I don’t spend much time focused on how he feels, just that he’s uninjured and not physically uncomfortable. I’ve forgotten how much he loves being brushed and having his hair cut and braided. He’s one horse who will stand completely still as I clean his face and ears and cut his mane.
Because Ryon’s behavioral issues under saddle are not restricted only to me, my trainer and I put him in some new equipment this week that prevents him from pulling so hard on the backside of fences. We’ll have to just swap bits every few months, so he doesn’t have time to get too comfortable (read: take advantage) of each one. When Ryon gets bored, he acts out and doesn’t pay attention and changing the conversation between us will hopefully be enough of a distraction for him and keep him on his toes. This horse is teaching me (very passively) to never let things get stale and to look at problems from different angles. I’ll be sure to report back and let you all know how it progresses.